When Good Neighbors Go Bad: A Seattleite’s Guide to Fence Diplomacy
Picture this: You’re sipping a Caffè Umbria oat-milk latte, admiring your new cedar fence… until your neighbor storms over, accusing you of stealing 6 inches of their yard. Classic Ballard. At Inline Fence, we’ve seen it all—from passive-aggressive Post-it notes to full-blown “Seahawks game loud” arguments. Here’s how to resolve fence disputes without becoming the block’s villain.
1. “Is This Even My Fence?” – Start with a Property Line Survey

40% of fence fights begin with fuzzy boundaries. Order a professional survey (yes, even if Grandma swears the lilac bush marks the line). Seattle’s dense neighborhoods mean every inch counts.
Pro tip: Split the survey cost with your neighbor—it’s cheaper than court!
Inline Fence Assist: We partner with licensed surveyors and handle permit paperwork for shared fences.
2. Know Seattle’s Fence Laws: Height, Materials, and “Spite Fences”
Max height: 6ft for rear yards, 4ft for front yards (goodbye, 8ft privacy dreams in Capitol Hill).
No barbed wire or electrified fences (yes, someone tried this in Fremont).
“Spite fences” (built purely to annoy) are illegal under WA State law RCW 7.40.030.
3. The Money Talk: Who Pays for What?

The golden rule: If you want the fence, you pay. If you benefit (like replacing a shared rotting fence), split costs. Draft a written agreement covering:
Material costs (cedar vs. chain link drama)
Labor (DIY disasters vs. pro installs)
Future repairs (because Seattle rain never quits)
4. “But I Hate Your Hog Wire!” – Design Disagreements Solved
You want ornamental iron; they want chicken wire. Compromise with:
Dual-sided designs (pretty on your side, simple on theirs)
Alternating materials (e.g., cedar posts with steel panels)
Inline Fence’s neutral design consultants—we’re Switzerland with power tools.
5. When to Mediate, Not Litigate

Seattle’s Community Mediation Service offers $50/hour sessions to resolve fence feuds. Cheaper than lawyers, and you won’t ruin the block party vibe.
6. The “Good Neighbor Fence” LoopHole
Under WA law, if a fence straddles the property line, it’s jointly owned. But if you build 2 inches inside your line, it’s 100% yours. Inline Fence recommends this for high-conflict cases—just don’t gloat about it at the farmers’ market.
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7. Worst-Case Scenario: When to Call Professionals (Like Us)
If your neighbor’s fence is:
Leaning into your yard like a drunk Mariners fan
Rotting and attracting termites
Blocking your mountain view (the ultimate Seattle sin)
…we can help negotiate repairs or replacements. Bonus: Our crews work fast, so you’re not stuck in a months-long “he said/she said” saga.
Conclusion: Fences Make Good Neighbors… If You Build Them Right
Whether you’re splitting costs for a horizontal wood fence or diffusing a vinyl vinyl showdown, Inline Fence turns neighbor drama into backyard harmony. Got a dispute? Let’s build a solution that’s sturdier than the Space Needle.
P.S. We offer free fence conflict consultations. Because life’s too short to fight over post holes.


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